Here at Gold Soul, we’re all about them golden and positive vibez.
Don’t hang on to negative people and their negative energy. You don’t need that shit and you deserve better! Love and relationships can always be a shitty thing, especially when the feelings aren’t mutual. But sometimes, you just gotta forget about people who don’t matter, leave them behind and keep being a bad bitch.
1. Avoid being a clingy texter
We never appreciate anyone over-texting us, so if you’re going to send “We should talk” or “Let’s hang out soon” messages every day, they’re probably not going to be interested. Don’t waste your time… or your money.
2. Don’t stalk them on Social Media
We’re all guilty of doing it sometime in our lives. But, if you’re in a situation where you keep running back to this same poisonous person, it’s probably best that you stay far away from their Facebook and especially far away from photos that they’ve been tagged. Yes, they’re smiling and laughing with what looks like a new love interest. You deserve that too…. just not with that person.
3. It’s not a good idea to get drunk and talk to them
If you’re prone to blurting out the truth when you’ve had one too many, you best put your smart cap on before you get your drink on. We all do dumb things when we’re drunk so try not to make a fool of yourself.
4. Don’t assume you’re the only person in their life
They have friends too, and for the most part they’ll be of both genders. Yep, your crush has friends who are male and female. Like any other person, they’ll hang out with their friends, so don’t assume they’ll always work around your schedule.
5. Don’t settle for a half-assed relationship
If this person is obviously not interested, then it’s best that you move on. Best case scenario: they go out with you a few times out of pity or to shut you up. It’s the sad truth. You don’t deserve that half-assed relationship with some dickhead who doesn’t care at all for you.
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