REAL TALK: Things to know before dating a Scorpio

So you think that girl or guy is cute, huh? And they’re a Scorpian? No, we’re not talking about the deadly insect – we’re talking about the gorgeous guys and girls whose birthday falls between October 23 – November 21.

I myself am a Scorpio and, don’t worry, we’re not bitches from another planet, we’re just misunderstood, independent, passionate and proud of it!

 

Once you get close to a Scorpio, they’ll make sure that you stay in their life.
This isn’t a bad thing at all. It’s not them being the clingy type, it’s just them appreciating the relationship that you’ve built. They try their absolute best to be a loyal friend to every person who gives the effort back and they value every strong relationship that they have, so if you try to push them away, it’ll be extra difficult for a Scorpio to cope.

They may be private people, but they want to know every little thing about you.
Getting to know a Scorpio is a whole different ball game. They might come across as someone who is closed off and doesn’t want to share personal things with you, but that’s because they want to sit and listen to you. In time, Scorpio’s will open up – they just need to really trust the person before they do.

You can never keep a secret from a Scorpio.
Don’t even think about keeping secrets from a Scorpio because they’ll figure it out. Again, they aren’t some clingy relationship detective, they just happen to see things and they’re amazing at joining the dots.

They aren’t big on affection, but are great lovers.
You won’t find them asking you for cuddles in the night or to hold their hand on your way to town. They aren’t aggressive, but they definitely know what they want and what they’re doing. So just go with it… 😉

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Things you shouldn’t do when they’re clearly not into you

Here at Gold Soul, we’re all about them golden and positive vibez.

Don’t hang on to negative people and their negative energy. You don’t need that shit and you deserve better! Love and relationships can always be a shitty thing, especially when the feelings aren’t mutual. But sometimes, you just gotta forget about people who don’t matter, leave them behind and keep being a bad bitch.

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1. Avoid being a clingy texter

We never appreciate anyone over-texting us, so if you’re going to send “We should talk” or “Let’s hang out soon” messages every day, they’re probably not going to be interested. Don’t waste your time… or your money.

2. Don’t stalk them on Social Media

We’re all guilty of doing it sometime in our lives. But, if you’re in a situation where you keep running back to this same poisonous person, it’s probably best that you stay far away from their Facebook and especially far away from photos that they’ve been tagged. Yes, they’re smiling and laughing with what looks like a new love interest. You deserve that too…. just not with that person.

3. It’s not a good idea to get drunk and talk to them

If you’re prone to blurting out the truth when you’ve had one too many, you best put your smart cap on before you get your drink on. We all do dumb things when we’re drunk so try not to make a fool of yourself.

4. Don’t assume you’re the only person in their life

They have friends too, and for the most part they’ll be of both genders. Yep, your crush has friends who are male and female. Like any other person, they’ll hang out with their friends, so don’t assume they’ll always work around your schedule.

5. Don’t settle for a half-assed relationship

If this person is obviously not interested, then it’s best that you move on. Best case scenario: they go out with you a few times out of pity or to shut you up. It’s the sad truth. You don’t deserve that half-assed relationship with some dickhead who doesn’t care at all for you.

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